The Four Stages of Life
Ancient Hindu writings dating back as far as 500 years BCE make reference to the four stages of life that we pass through during our time here on the physical plane.
Stage 1: The Student, Brahmacharya
The first 20 years we are students of life, learning the skills that will support us and those within our care, but also that establishes the foundation of our spiritual path. Without this foundation, we can be swept up in a sea of materialism, evidenced by the unbridled consumerism so rampant in our society today.
In the east, young men in particular are traditionally sent to spend time in monasteries during their late teenage years, so that they might better align with this aspect of life and learn the importance of service to the greater community.
![]() A Guatemalan mother speaks to her son, receiving training on The Farm in Tennessee, via ham radio. ![]() Deborah serving as our lab technician in Guatemala
When I joined The Farm back in 1973, it was with the acknowledgment that I was to be a student of the spiritual path. These years were also when I studied electronics, developing the skills that would support my family throughout my life. During this same time Deborah began her training in a variety of medical skills. This would lead us to Guatemala, where we spent the better part of two years as volunteers with Plenty International.
Stage 2: Householder Yogi, Grihastha
As householders, we are in a period of building our career, perhaps finding a partner, starting a family. Our responsibility is to care for the children and for the elders, as we discover our inner strength and the power to manifest.
We recognize our ability to be a pillar of the community, going beyond taking care of ourselves and extending our hand in service of the greater good.
![]() (Right: My work often involved travel, such as installing satellite dishes in Africa) Stage 3: A time of Service, Vanaprastha
When we reach the age of 50 to 60, ideally our children have finished their education and grown into adults. We are no longer driven to define our own careers and can seek ways to dedicate more time in service.
![]() This was when I gave much of my energy to Swan Conservation Trust, a nonprofit Land Trust founded by members of the community. I served for 10 years on its Board of Directors and helped to lead a fundraising campaign that raised 1 1/2 million dollars to establish Big Swan Headwaters Preserve, something we all hope will stand for generations to come.
(right: signing the note to purchase the land establishing Big Swan Headwaters) I was The Farm Community's manager for eight years, overseeing construction projects, building roads, hosting The Farm Experience Weekends, building the community's website, and putting my time into fulfilling our vision, while shifting away from the business of commercial video production.
Stage 4: A Time for Reflection, Sannyasa
In this final stage of life, we recognize that we are beyond the time of building a career and that we have to pass the baton to those who come behind us. We have the opportunity to look back on decades of decisions good and bad, learning more about our strengths and weaknesses and how they have come to play throughout our life.
With the internal shifts that turn down the fire comes a more relaxed outlook on life, wherewe may find it easier to forgive, put aside petty differences, and instead place our attention to things that bring us joy and deepen our connection to the heart. We can take the time to be more contemplative, to meditate, and feel the oneness that permeates all things.
In reflection, I can see that many of my life choices were not conscious, but the natural ebb and flow of following a path.
It can be easy to say we do not have time for our kids, to volunteer, and difficult to pull back from being driven by work and the need for more money. However, with greater awareness, we can see these opportunities as they come toward us, and make changes to ourselves that the rational mind may push aside. And in doing so, discover our true selves.
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The Kids To The Country Winter Program in Nashville at The Shelter
![]() Visit the web site www.kidstothecountry.org photo from a previous KTC Winter Program
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Speaking Engagements
At the same time, I recognize that I can reach a lot more people if I go outside the community. One of my goals is to speak at colleges and universities where I can talk to young people about Right Livelihood, Service, and Finding Sanity in an Insane World. This is a time when people need to hear an uplifting message of hope.
If you are part of an organization, event, or school (or you just want to learn more about my life's work), I invite you to visit my web site www.douglasstevenson.com, where you'll find information on my lecture topics and how to bring me to speak in your area.
Thank you for your interest, and your support. I hope to see you down the road.
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My wife Deborah is one of the primary midwives practicing on The Farm right now. She is also a teacher with the midwifery workshops and our College of Traditional Midwifery. If you, a friend, or family member are considering a midwifery assisted birth, I encourage you to visit her web site and check out her podcast.
![]() www.awakeningbirth.org - the Web Site
www.awakening birth.net - The Podcast
Her birth resource web sites for families seeking guidance on subjects such as
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